Planning your own funeral might not be at the top of your to-do list but if there’s one thing you should have a say in, it’s the song that plays as you make your grand exit. In this story, we’re going to review some of the top farewell jams that might resonate with you!

At funerals, songs play an essential role in commemorating a loved one’s life, offering solace to those grieving, and sometimes even celebrating a life well lived.

Your funeral song is your last chance to express who you were – whether that’s a sentimental soul, a rock-and-roll rebel, or someone who just wanted to make people smile one last time.

Music, “that perfectly encapsulates who the deceased,” has the “power to connect a room full of people and help them share the same emotions,” according to Coast Family Funerals.

Classic tearjerkers
Certain songs have an almost universal ability to bring tears to our eyes. These classics have been played at funerals for decades, offering a deeply emotional farewell.

“Tears in Heaven” – Eric Clapton: This hauntingly beautiful song was written by Clapton following the tragic death of his young son. The lyrics speak to the pain of loss, longing, and the hope of reuniting in the afterlife.

“Hallelujah” – Leonard Cohen (or Jeff Buckley’s Version): Though originally written by Cohen, Jeff Buckley’s rendition is often the go-to version at memorial services. The deep, poetic lyrics and melancholic melody capture both sorrow and grace.

“Wind Beneath My Wings” – Bette Midler: A song that perfectly encapsulates gratitude and appreciation, often chosen to honor parents, mentors, or loved ones who provided unwavering support throughout life.

“Angel” – Sarah McLachlan: This song, known for its delicate piano arrangement and ethereal vocals, is a touching tribute to someone who has found peace after struggles in life.

Uplifting and hopeful
Not all funeral songs have to be deeply sorrowful; some bring hope, joy, and a sense of celebration for the life lived.

“Somewhere Over the Rainbow” – Israel Kamakawiwo’ole: This ukulele-driven version of the classic song is “one of the most popular funeral songs of all time.” The soothing, hopeful melody is “best played to signify a long, happy life reaching its end, its calm melody is perfect for saying goodbye.”

“What a Wonderful World” – Louis Armstrong: A song that highlights the beauty of life and the love that surrounds us, making it a perfect farewell to a person who cherished the simple joys.

“My Way” – Frank Sinatra: For someone who lived life on their own terms, this song is a powerful anthem of independence, pride, and personal legacy.

“You Raise Me Up” – Josh Groban: A song of encouragement and strength, often played in honor of someone who inspired and uplifted those around them.

Modern hits
Recent songs have also found their way into funeral services, offering contemporary but equally powerful messages of love and remembrance.

“Supermarket Flowers” – Ed Sheeran: This track – inspired by Sheeran’s grandmother’s passing – is a deeply personal song about loss that describes the days after losing a parent.

“See You Again” – Wiz Khalifa ft. Charlie Puth: Originally written for Paul Walker’s tribute in Fast & Furious 7, this song has since become a modern funeral staple for its emotional lyrics and theme of reunion beyond this life.

“Dancing in the Sky” – Dani and Lizzy: A heartfelt song about wondering what a loved one is experiencing in heaven, offering a comforting perspective to those grieving.

“Fix You” – Coldplay: With its swelling melody and lyrics about healing, “Fix You” is often played to comfort those left behind.

Lighthearted
While some songs are universally chosen, the most meaningful ones are those that reflect the personality, passions, or humor of the departed.

Remember, funerals don’t have to be sombre!

“Always Look on the Bright Side of Life” – Monty Python: For someone with a great sense of humor, this cheeky song can bring a smile even in the midst of sorrow.

“Don’t Stop Believin” – Journey: For the optimist who always saw the silver lining, this song is a celebration of resilience and hope.

“Bohemian Rhapsody” – Queen: An unconventional but fitting choice for someone who lived life boldly and unapologetically.

“Simply the Best” – Tina Turner: A tribute to someone who truly was “the best” in the eyes of their loved ones.

“Drops of Jupiter” – Train: This smash hit is a popular for people who wants the tone to be an upbeat celebration of life rather than a sombre farewell. “

“Don’t Worry, Be Happy: – Bobby McFerrin: For good vibes, this chirpy song will inspire some cheer in the midst of immense sadness.

“Highway to Hell” – AC/DC: While this song might seem strange, it is actually quite a popular choice! It’s great for those with a good sense of humour as its upbeat nature is sure to get guests laughing and on their feet.

Other crowd pleasers – recommended by Trinity Funeral homes – include:

“You Can Close Your Eyes” – James Taylor
“Tears in Heaven” – Eric Clapton
“Hallelujah” – Jeff Buckley
“Feels Like Home” – Chantal Kreviazuk
“Asleep” – The Smith’s
“My Heart will Go On” – Celine Dion
“Satisfied Mind” – Jeff Buckley
“Blower’s Daughter” – Damien Rice
“Wherever You Will Go” – The Calling
“Spirit In The Sky” – Norman Greenbaum
“I’ve Had The Time Of My Life” – Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes
“Forever Young” – Rod Stewart
Choosing the perfect funeral song is more than just a detail – it’s your final mic drop!

What song would you want played at your funeral? Let us know in the comments and then share this story with your friends so we can hear from them!